Thursday, November 20, 2008

Good Advise Taken from My Email.....

PUT YOUR CAR KEYS BESIDE YOUR BED AT NIGHT

Tell your spouse, your children, your neighbors, your parents your Dr office, the check-out girl at the market, everyone you meet.
Put your car keys beside your bed at night. If you hear a noise outside your home or someone trying to get in your house, just press the panic button for your car. The alarm will be set off, and the horn will continue to sound until either you turn it off or the car battery dies.
This tip came from a neighborhood watch coordinator. Next time you come home for the night and you start to put your keys away, think of this:
It's a security alarm system that you probably already have and requires no installation. Test it. It will go off from most everywhere inside your house and will keep honking until your battery runs down or until you reset it with the button on the key fob chain. It works if you park in your driveway or garage If your car alarm goes off when someone is trying to break in your house, odds are the burglar/rapist won't stick around... <>

After a few seconds all the neighbors will be looking out their windows to see who is out there and sure enough the criminal won't want that. And remember to carry your keys while walking to your car in a parking lot. The alarm can work the same way there ....

This is something that should really be shared with everyone. Maybe it could save a life or a sexual abuse crime.

Friday, November 14, 2008

愛情

在支撐團體裡呆了一段時候,常常遇到一些讓愛情搞得焦頭爛額的男女。聽聽他們怎麼說:

“我對他那麼的好,他還是離開我,上天對我太不公平了。”

“我罵他是因為我愛他。要是我不愛他,我才懶得理他。”

“不管他?我能不管他嗎?他是我愛人啊!”

分手的情侶夫妻總是充滿了如此的怨言。這樣的男女,假如跳不出怨天尤人的狀況,很肯定的,他們會在下一段愛情的路上,遇到同樣的狀況。

愛情不是交易

我常常借用一些大師的話,對這些男女說:“愛他,就讓他自由吧!包括有一天他要求跟你分手,你也讓他輕松的離開。”

“那麼我不是很吃虧嗎?”他們總是馬上反彈。

愛情本來就不是交易。假如你很在意誰多了一些誰少了一些,你的愛情路上肯定是多苦多難的。因為,沒有多少人願意跟一個斤斤計較的人在一塊。

另一方面,要是他真的要離開你,你也阻止不了對方。與其一哭二鬧三上吊的讓對方跑得更快,倒不如大家好好分手,再見還是個朋友。

假如你在愛情路上跌倒了,請別怨天尤人,學習放手,學習體諒,你會發現你的下一段愛情變得豐盛多了。

星洲日報/副刊‧文:大潘‧2008.11.10